Sometimes when I coach people they describe to me how they feel that they’re just going where the wind blows. They are just being led by other people and they are influenced by other people and other things. It’s easy to understand why because we are all looking for acceptance and belonging and we want to feel like we’re needed. It is sometimes easy to find our purpose in other people’s values and we find that in life people feel like they’re just going where the wind blows.
In life, there are a few important times where people question what life is really all about, and they ask themselves important questions about where they’re going, who what matters to them or what their purpose is. They start feeling their age, and they stop feeling so invisible and because we have this craving inside to fit in and belong and do something bigger than our self. But sometimes because of our cravings, we adopt other people’s values and sometimes other people’s values and beliefs are good and sometimes they’re not. The problem is that sometimes we don’t assess where we are and how we’re adopting other people’s values and beliefs and because of that, we feel like we are like shifting sand. If any of this sounds familiar, then I encourage you to check out my Lessons from the Sand Dunes video to find out how you can move from feeling like you’re going where the wind blows. I will share the powerful questions that you need to ask yourself to shift positively in life.